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Introverts, You’ve Got it Goin’ On
I have recently published a blog post about being an introvert and thought that this week’s Sorbate topic on stereotypes would be the perfect opportunity to spread the good word about us introverts. If you haven’t noticed, the United States is a very extroverted society. As a minority, introverts encounter a lot of misconceptions especially in the workplace.
According to Trina Isakson the "American way" reflects extroverts much more than introverts: “An estimated 75% of the population is extroverted (Tieger & Barron-Tieger, 1995) and reward systems and job recognition are generally set up to value extroverts. Extroverts get rewarded because their work is apparent. They talk openly and often about what they’re working on and how busy they are. You see them and they just look like they’re getting things done. Lots of meetings, people to see, places to rush off too. They’re good at marketing themselves. And somehow, I swear they walk louder. With extroverts, often “what you see is what you get.” They thrive on the world around them, so the world around them knows what’s going on with them.”
But what about introverts? With introverts, what you see is only a portion of our personality. The richest and most trusted parts of an introvert’s personality are not necessarily shared with the outside world. It takes time, trust, and special circumstances for us to begin to open up.
Introverts at work tend to:
- Like quiet for concentration.
- Care about their work and workplace.
- Work well with little supervision (you can usually trust an introvert at work to stay on task).
- Work alone contentedly.
- Seem quiet and aloof.
- Need to be asked for their opinions (introverts at work rarely volunteer information).
- Need to think and reflect before acting.
- Have trouble communicating (though not all introverts at work struggle with communication).
- Dislike intrusions and interruptions.
- Be reluctant to delegate.
Understand that introversion is not shyness. It's not anti-social. It's not entirely a need to be alone.
Introversion is a personality trait (defined by C. G. Jung) where we prefer to relate to the world by first taking it "inward." Our energy comes from within. Extraverts, on the other hand, are energized by direct interaction with the world, such as socializing. We all possess introversion and extraversion to some degree, but according to Jung, we inherently prefer one over the other.
We introverts can be as outgoing as extraverts when we need to be, but we tend to tire more quickly around crowds, prefer to think things through before we act on them, and find inner energy through solitude.
Underneath a timid or cool appearance, we can be reflective, thoughtful, and confident, with high powers of concentration and good listening skills. It's the healthy side of quiet.
Even so, at work, we sometimes feel like misfits in a fast-paced, visibility oriented, social-networking business world.
In truth, introverts' inner-directedness, caution with details, and strong abilities to concentrate can make us true assets in the workplace. In fact, according to research: about 70 percent of CEO’s describe themselves as “introverts.” The list of well-known “Who’s Who” of corporate introverted CEOs includes: Bill Gates, Warren Buffet, movie magnate Steven Spielberg, and Sara Lee’s Brenda Barnes.
Introverts have been known to bring certain qualities to the team, including but not limited to:
- Reliability
- Initiative
- Persistence
- Depth of knowledge
- Prudence
- Precision & Accuracy
- Independence (requiring little supervision)
An introvert may have a wealth of creative ideas under a quiet exterior. And yes, introverts can even be effective sales people, because they tend to:
- listen well to customers' needs,
- develop relationships with repeat customers,
- know their subject in depth,
- express credibility and honesty,
- and can relate well to the needs of the 25-50% of the population that is introverted.
If you are an introvert, the first step to become successful at work is to accept your personality characteristics and to not be afraid to let people know about it. Make the best of your trait to become more visible at work. Whoever said that you have to act pushy and self-serving, and even make a fool out of yourself to be effective at self-promotion? Instead, why not use your quiet strengths such as thinking deeply, listening, working independently, researching, gaining expertise, writing, and building lasting one-one-one relationships to raise your visibility?
Below are some helpful resources that can help you get to the next level in your career:
10 Tips to Help Introverts Win at Work, Smart Blog On Workforce
Office Politics for Introverts, Bnet
Self Promotion for Introverts, Psychology Today
How Introverts Can Survive at Work, The Introvertz Coach
Introverts Can Learn to Love Networking, Democrat and Chronicle.com
Finding Your 'Quiet Strength' as an Introvert, Women for Hire
How an Introvert Can Survive Giving a Presentation, Career Intelligence.com
Introverts Quietly Can Make Big Impact, AJC
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Comments
Interesting topic. I struggle
Interesting topic. I struggle with being an introvert. How do you turn down social/business invitations without coming off as antisocial? Also, I wonder if it's possible to become more extroverted if you're an introvert and vice versa, if you feel like you want to change.
Well, if you are introvert it
Well, if you are an introvert it doesn't mean that you do not posses extroverted qualities. It just so happens that it is the dominant personality type that you have. I suggest you take the MBTI Test here: http://www.personalitypathways.com/type_inventory.html to get a better idea and understanding of your personality as a whole- it's not just black and white. Also check these links out: http://www.stevepavlina.com/blog/2005/09/how-to-go-from-introvert-to-ext...
http://www.experienceproject.com/groups/Am-An-Extroverted-Introvert/111281
http://www.pickthebrain.com/blog/attention-introverts-how-to-become-more...
As for turning down invitations, I say if it's an event that allows you to connect meaningfuly with like minded people then don't turn it down. Other than that, graciously declining an invitation isn't anti-social at all. Even extroverts do it!
Being an introvert there are
Being an introvert there are some things I struggle with in my career that you've pointed out. You're last sentence really highlights what every introvert should be focusing on. I often feel surrounded by the 'what you see is what you get' type and I see them succeeding and climbing that corporate ladder... and I get frustrated. So my focus this year really is on building out my strengths and having faith that those will speak quite loudly for themselves in the future.
Rae- I didn't realize you
Rae- I didn't realize you were an introvert! lol but I hear you. For us introverts the key thing to focus on is communication- do it early and do it often. Become visbile without sacrificing our true self! Amazon also has books that you can check out like this one: http://www.amazon.com/gp/product/1576755770/ref=pd_lpo_k2_dp_sr_2?pf_rd_...
Also check out this article: http://www.usatoday.com/money/companies/management/2006-06-06-shy-ceo-us...
LOL. I get that all the
LOL. I get that all the time:P But I've taken the MBTI instrument like 3 times.... first during my undergrad and most recently last year. I dabble between INFJ and INTJ.
Social situations like networking events are really kind of anxious situations for me... but I try and set some goals beforehand so I can focus on those and not get freaked out too much:P If I do seem extroverted I think it's me trying really hard to overcompensate. LOL. I really REALLY feel more comfortable in one on one/really small group situations versus large group.
The book looks totally cool. I might just swing by Borders later and pick it up;)